::In the courtyard of Sakana, it's a bit of a warm evening, as Asuka sits there wearing a baggy shirt and some brown shorts, sucking on an ice pop, kicking her feet.::
There's just a LOT of really outdated stereotypes and expectations that are put on women. To marry, to have kids, to be a social butterfly, to wear specific things... but not everyone wants those things, or they don't want to feel forced into them. So, it's understandable to feel kinda complicated on the whole issue of gender and the expectations it can bring.
I think if I was younger, it absolutely would've gone way over my head.
But I think years of meeting and knowing really diverse people and monsters has kinda opened me up to a lot of different things, different situations, different thoughts and opinions... and I kinda learn from them, I think.
And I want to be supportive of stuff like this too.
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Date: 2024-04-22 06:25 pm (UTC)There's just a LOT of really outdated stereotypes and expectations that are put on women. To marry, to have kids, to be a social butterfly, to wear specific things... but not everyone wants those things, or they don't want to feel forced into them. So, it's understandable to feel kinda complicated on the whole issue of gender and the expectations it can bring.
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Date: 2024-04-22 06:31 pm (UTC)::Sucking on her popsicle.::
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Date: 2024-04-22 06:47 pm (UTC)It wouldn't bother me at all. I think it's good for you to explore yourself as a person and maybe find a way to live more truer to yourself.
If there is anything you want to change, like pronouns or something like that, just let me know.
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Date: 2024-04-22 07:18 pm (UTC)::Takes a deep breath.::
This is going a lot better than I expected.
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Date: 2024-04-22 07:37 pm (UTC)I think sometimes when it comes to discussing personal stuff, we kinda think of the worst outcomes.
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Date: 2024-04-22 07:39 pm (UTC)It was more I expected this to all fly over your head.
I mean this without malice, but high-ended things like this tend to not be your forte.
::Laughs awkwardly.::
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Date: 2024-04-22 07:52 pm (UTC)*He gives out a little laugh.*
I think if I was younger, it absolutely would've gone way over my head.
But I think years of meeting and knowing really diverse people and monsters has kinda opened me up to a lot of different things, different situations, different thoughts and opinions... and I kinda learn from them, I think.
And I want to be supportive of stuff like this too.
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Date: 2024-04-22 08:24 pm (UTC)::Smiles.::
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Date: 2024-04-22 09:24 pm (UTC)Sounds good.